Together Real Bad

This exclusive Patreon video episode gets into the real, real of what it means to build (and keep building) a long-term relationship. Beautifulll shares what it’s like to be in her longest relationship ever, and Ace reflects on lessons from two 8-year loves. The talk growth, communication, triggers, and how to stay soft when life (and your ex) tried to harden you.
In this episode:
Posting your partner for the first time 😳
Creating a soft space when past relationships made you hard
Why we don’t go to bed angry (and what our friends do instead 👀)
Living out loud and letting the whole world know who you love
Keeping things fresh 3 years in: date nights, packing help, and podcasting
 How Boystown has changed and why we’re dreaming up a Girls Town
This one’s for the lovers, the healers, and the homies preparing for their person.
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In this episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace open up about the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of launching their new business venture together — Jem Junkies. From working the Black Boy Art Show in Chicago to building a brand that blends beauty and culture, the duo shares what it’s really like to start a business with your partner.
They talk about:
👩🏾‍❤️‍👩🏽 The real behind mixing love and entrepreneurship
📈 The vision for Jem Junkies as a cultural lifestyle brand beyond tooth gems and grillz
💡 Big wins and minor hiccups at their first major event
💬 Tips for maintaining balance when you're business partners and life partners
🧠 The importance of boundaries, business roles, and not taking things personal
🌈 Living out loud and showing up unapologetically
🎤 Ace’s bold predictions for Beyoncé’s Act III (yes, we said what we said)
Plus, there’s a surprise guest appearance from Koda 🐶, a shout-out to Black Boys Rock, and a passionate review of Cowboy Carter.
Whether you’re thinking about starting a business with your partner or just curious how we’re navigating this journey, this one’s full of laughs, life lessons, and a few unexpected gems.

What’s up y’all! With the long weekend, and how busy we were, we just could not fit the Podcast in the schedule. But don’t worry we are back with an episode early Wednesday morning. See you then!
Beautifulll and Ace

In this episode, we talk about what it’s like to really come out — not just once, but in layers. Inspired by a touching DM from a listener in London and a major coming out moment with family, we peel back the curtain on the fears, family dynamics, social media choices, and joy that come with showing up fully as yourself.
✨ Inside:
Funny & frustrating bed-making battles
A Mother's Day coming-out story (with a twist!)
Being “out” at work, but not on Facebook
Responding to a listener who asked, “How do I come out to myself?”
And of course, a few laughs, a lot of love, and even more truth.
We’re grateful to have a space where we can be soft, honest, and hilarious at the same time — and we’re grateful for YOU for helping us make it possible. ❤️
Tap in. Let’s keep growing, together.

In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace dive deep into the complexities of bisexuality, identity, and love in queer relationships — inspired by a real conversation with our incredible Airbnb guest, Demita Frazier! 🏡✨
🎙 Topics Covered:
When Beautifulll first realized her attraction to women
The struggles of reconciling bisexuality with religious upbringing
First experiences with women and evolving relationship dynamics
How being bisexual is perceived differently within the LGBTQIA+ community
Navigating labels, fluidity, and boundaries in committed relationships
Why being with a woman doesn't erase bisexual identity
Conversations about attraction, trust, and relationship security
Funny date night stories, life updates, and late-night diaries
PLUS: We recap an amazing evening at the Queer News Podcast Salon hosted by E3 Radio’s Anna (DeShawn), celebrate Lesbian Visibility Week, and shout out to our Flag Football fam for showing up and showing love! 🏳️‍🌈🏈
🎨 We also talk about visiting the Black Creativity Exhibit at the Museum of Science and Industry, and support Black-owned businesses like 14 Parish!
🎧 Tune in if you’ve ever wondered:
Can bisexual people feel erased in relationships?
How does dating as a bisexual woman feel different?
How do you maintain individuality and sexual identity within long-term queer relationships?
And most importantly... what does mermaid bathwater taste like? 🧜‍♀️
💬 Special thanks again to Demita Frazier for inspiring the title of this episode!
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In this Patreon episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace get real about navigating blame in relationships—from late-night matcha disasters to emotional misfires and unspoken expectations.
We kick things off with a check-in on work, wellness, and that one neighbor who might just be a villain. Then we get personal about family brunches, coming out, and why setting emotional traps (even unintentionally) never ends well.
💥 This episode dives deep into:
Why blaming your partner never works
Talking through conflict without pointing fingers
Taking ownership (even when it’s not your fault… but it kinda is)
Ego vs. understanding: what makes or breaks a healthy fight
A hilarious and chaotic story about makeup, candy, and a hyped-up Yorkie Poo
🗓 Plus: updates on our live podcast salon with Queer News & E3 Radio, a Black-owned BBQ spotlight, pop culture recs (hello Love on the Spectrum), and the Netflix show we won’t be recommending.
⏱️ Episode Timestamps:
00:00 – Intro Vibes & Theme Song Love01:00 – Life Updates: Work, Tiredness & The Coaching Mindset04:00 – Condo Water Drama & Editing Woes08:00 – Podcast Salon Announcement (April 25 at Affinity Community Center!)10:00 – Coming Out Over Brunch: The Update We've All Been Waiting For14:00 – Date Night Diaries: Art Shows, Fashion & Permanent Jewelry17:00 – Korean BBQ and Food Talk18:00 – Black-Owned Business Spotlight: Sanders BBQ in Beverly22:00 – Pop Culture: Love on the Spectrum Praise + Balloon Show Flop29:00 – Main Topic: The Blame Game32:00 – Storytime: Koda + Candy + Chaos37:00 – Therapy Talk: Accountability vs. Attack45:00 – Emotional Ownership & Growth50:00 – Grudges, Cycles, and Female Ego Navigation56:00 – Storytime Tangents & Takeaways60:00 – Take It or Leave It61:00 – Outro
✨ Takeaways & Talking Points:
How to approach blame with empathy and humor
Why ego has no place in conflict resolution
Creating safe space for feedback, even during emotional triggers
Learning from past relationships to protect what you have now
🔗 Mentions:
🎧 Queer News and E3 Radio🍗 Sanders BBQ – Beverly, Chicago📺 Love on the Spectrum (Netflix)🚫 That Netflix Balloon Show (you’ll see...)
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In this honest and hilarious episode, Beautifulll and Ace dive deep into the question: Would you rather be right or stay in a relationship? From "I told you so" moments to the petty Olympics, they're unpacking ego, communication, and growth in a real relationship.
This episode also features:
Their experience at a Black-owned Chicago hotel 🏨
A pottery date gone sideways 🎨
Piercings, tattoos, and tooth gems 💎
A wild tattoo convention 🐍
Tips for compromising without losing yourself
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🔊 Beautifulll & Ace are flipping the script on intimacy! In this episode, they’re NOT talking about sex (okay, maybe a little), but more about the deeper, everyday ways partners connect. From knowing when your person needs space to those small but meaningful gestures—THIS is what keeps relationships strong. 💖
🎙️ Inside This Episode:✅ The little ways intimacy shows up beyond the bedroom✅ Why non-verbal connections matter more than we think✅ Protective gestures, hand-holding & how they hit different✅ Corporate clapbacks = relationship goals?! 👀✅ A whole lot of laughs, random dancing & real-life relationship talk
 
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Blood, Bonds & Boo’d Up | Friends vs. Family vs. Relationships
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When it comes to ranking our relationships, who really comes first? In this episode, we dive deep into the balancing act of friendships, family ties, and romantic relationships—and the struggles of keeping everyone happy while still prioritizing ourselves.
✨ Topics We Cover:🔹 The shifting dynamics between friends, family, and partners🔹 How therapy reshapes our relationship priorities🔹 Setting boundaries when friends demand too much of your time🔹 The homebody vs. social butterfly relationship struggle🔹 Should your partner be your best friend?🔹 Compromising for love—but how much is too much?
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It’s easy to get caught up in love, but sometimes, in the process of building a life with a partner, parts of personal identity can start to fade. In this episode of Together Real Bad, hosts Beautifulll and Ace take a deep dive into what it means to maintain individuality in a long-term relationship.
Three years into their journey, they reflect on the question: Are they still the same people they were at the start, or have they lost pieces of themselves along the way? This conversation isn’t about relationship struggles—it’s about growth, self-awareness, and ensuring that love doesn’t come at the cost of personal identity.
 
Thing we love this week!
Book Recommendations –
The Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes: Get it on Amazon
Good to Great by Jim Collins: Get it on Amazon
Melted and Bonded: https://www.instagram.com/meltedbondedjewelry
🚨 What Listeners Can Expect in This Episode:
🎭 The Evolution of Self in a Relationship – How they’ve changed (and stayed the same) over the past three years🤝 Compromise vs. Sacrifice – The fine line between making healthy adjustments and losing individuality🚩 Signs of Losing Yourself in a Relationship – How to recognize when personal goals, hobbies, and friendships start taking a back seat🛠️ Maintaining Independence While in Love – Strategies to stay true to oneself while nurturing a strong partnership💬 Friendships & Relationships – How their friendships have evolved, and what it means to keep social circles thriving🛋️ The Role of Therapy & Self-Discovery – How therapy has helped one of them rediscover who they are today🔄 Daily Rituals for Self-Preservation – The small but significant habits that help maintain a sense of self
This episode is for anyone who has ever wondered: Am I still me in this relationship? Beautiful and Ace break it all down, offering personal reflections, practical advice, and a real look at how they navigate love while staying true to themselves.
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