Together Real Bad

Why So Serious?

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss, Pride South Side, Date Night Diaries, and the power of play in their relationship.
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Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server!
What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation  –  https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq 
We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!
 
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Heavy Pour

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about Pride month, South Side Pride, Couples Therapy on MAX, Date night diaries, and how they intentionally pour into each other through out their relationship
 
Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server!
What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation  –  https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!
 
Support The Pod!
Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust

Flaw Less

Beautifullll and Ace discuss Ace’s birthday, South Side Pride, Discord Launch, their subscribers and supporters, their friends engagement and how they are vulnerable with each other flaws and all.

Breakup Blueprint

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss their up coming Discord community, Pride South Side, TikTok Live, Memorial Day, Flag Football, Date Night Diaries and how each of them knew it was time to move on from past relationships.

The Do-Over

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about (HBO) Max’s Seeking Sister Wives and Seeking Brother Husband. Mother’s Day. Last episode update. Date night. Relationship regrets and navigating those regrets differently in their relationship.

Scrolling Apart

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss the WNBA Draft and the NFL Draft, Pride South Side (Chicago) and how social media can have an effect on communication in relationships.

Friends, How Many Of Us HaveThem?

In tihs episode, Beautifulll and Ace talk about, the death of OJ Simpson, NCAA Womens Basketball Championship and friendships while being in relationships and nurturing the friendships you have outside of your relationship.

You, Me and Dupree

In this episode, Beautifulll and Ace explore un-traditional relationship structures. They also talk about their experiences with these un-traditional structures, how they navigated their experiences, is it a possibility in their own relationship and how it affected their previous relationships.
 
If you want to check out the Bonus Episode of Together Real Bad, entitled Sweet N Low Daddy, you can purchase it by clicking here.
In the bonus episode Sweet N Low Daddy, Beautifulll & Ace talk about being "flewed" out by Beautifulll's sugar daddy. What her experience was, how Ace feels about, will it happen again and what the expectation are on actually having a sugar daddy.

Be Humble, B**tch Sit Down

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss A2 flag football championship, a Goldman Sachs trip to NYC, Love is Blind and how being humble in their relationship has helped to create a safer space in comparison to their past relationships. They will also discuss how they may struggle to be humble in their current relationship. Lastly, don’t know how to be humble? They have a few suggestions for you!

Therapy Tings!

In this episode Beautifulll and Ace have special guests Ashley and Alona! Ashley and Alona are avid listeners and join us to talk about their experience with individual therapy and couples therapy and how effects their relationship.
 
Below are the tools Alona & Ashley talked about as part of their therapy exercises! Use them!!
 
1. Check-ins: 
Set a time/day weekly that typically works best for you to have them. If that doesn't work, schedule out a time/day after each check-in to make sure it's in your calendar.  Please feel free to use whatever language you feel comfortable with but be mindful to stay within the realms of this template. 
 
Check-In Template
1. Individual Check-In: 
- On a scale of 1-10, how has your week been?
- What made it a ___ ? [Ex. What made it a 6?]
- How can you go from a ___, to a ___?  [Ex. How can it go from a 6 to a 7?]
 
2. Couple Check-In: 
- On a scale of 1-10, how are you feeling in our relationship this week? 
- What made it a ____? 
- How can it go from a ___, to a ____? 
*Key- SMALL goals and take it one goal at a time. We're not aiming to jump 2 numbers, we're just aiming to go from one number to the next. 
 
Also- don't be afraid to take notes. When your partner is telling you how they go from one number to the next, they are giving you the answer key. Write some thoughts down on your phone so you can be intentional about being a part of getting them to the next level. 
 
2. I-Feel Statements: 
I feel _______ when ________. I'd prefer _________
Again, these statements help to ward off blaming your partner and helps you to stay focused on you and your feelings. I've also attached an emotions wheel for you to utilize. 
 
3. Speaker/Listener
You express something to your partner using 4 sentences or less. Your partner repeats what they've heard and then you respond in 4 sentences or less. 
This helps you to think about what you're going to say before you say it. It also keeps you on task and makes sure you are interpreting what your partner is saying correctly.